When do we come in to Deity to finalize the details of our Wedding?

We generally have you sit down with an Event Coordinator to write down the “day-of” schedule & menu planning about 2-3 months before your Wedding. This is when you will discuss the majority of the details as well as the timing and flow of the day.

During your “day-of” scheduling meeting, you will speak with an Event Coordinator, and they will be filling out this  Wedding Schedule for our own in-house purposes. Please feel free to begin filling this out yourself to bring to this meeting, it may keep you organized yourself, as well as remind you of the details that you need to figure out. We highly recommend taking your own notes during the meeting in addition to the notes we will take. This Schedule is for the our staffing & service flow purposes.

What services does the Deity day-of event coordinator provide?

Deity provides you with a “Day-of” event, on-site Coordinator as part of your Wedding package for no additional fee. They will be present for your planning meeting and will be there the day of the wedding to execute that plan. Your day-of coordinator is not your Wedding planner. They are there to coordinate the timing and the flow of your Wedding.

As you already know, Deity provides competitive pricing and does not have hidden fees or administrative costs like many other venues. We keep it simple and straight forward without the complications of a Wedding Planner.

However, there are some additional services that we do not provide as part of your package, but can be provided for additional fees if you choose to use them. These services include: early access to the venue, food tastings, different linens or more assistance from the coordinator and staff

Does Deity allow outside Wedding planners?

We only allow pre-approved event planners.  If you came to us through a wedding planner, we are more than willing to work with him or her. But please if you are considering hiring one, consult with us beforehand.

Because Deity has 3 floors, does that mean our Wedding party will be broken up between the different floors?

No, it will not. Each of Deity’s 3 distinct levels will be used separately at different times through the course of the Wedding. And all of your guests will be together with you on the floor being used at that moment.

Do we need a rehearsal?

One of our event coordinators will be there the day of your wedding to ensure that everything goes smoothly.  However, we realize that a small number of our guests want to have a rehearsal option.  To accommodate them, we charge a $500 staff fee to open up the venue for up to a one-hour rehearsal the day before the wedding.  This of course depends on the availability of the venue.

When can we drop off any DIY projects or items such as guest book, cardbox, programs, menus, drink signs, etc?

Drop off of these items are generally done in a 2-3 hr window prior to your Wedding. The exact time of drop off will need to be discussed with your day-of coordinator during your planning meeting.

Are we allowed access to Deity before our Wedding for set up purposes?

Please let your day-of coordinator know if early access is needed. Access is limited to availability.

We are planning on providing favors for our guests, how does Deity handle this?

Let us take care of this for you.  Just bring the favors to the venue the day of the event and our doorman will hand out the favors as your guest depart, thanking them for attending.

Candles, chocolates, and other treats make fabulous favors. However, we do not allow liquor or liqueur favors. It is against NY law for us to serve alcohol not purchased through Deity. If you MUST, have a liquor favor, please consult us first. If approved they would need to be passed out as guests are leaving and consumed off the Deity premises.

How does Deity handle left personal items, favors & décor?

Please be sure that all your items are taken at the end, the day of the event.  It is always best to designate a family member or friend for this purpose.  We are limited for space at Deity and do not have room to store your left items.  Deity is not responsible for any items left at our venue after your Wedding.

Who is responsible for cleaning the space?

We are, but we ask that if you hire any outside vendors, that they clean up after themselves.

What happens if it is our contract-end time, but we still want to party?

You book our venue for six-hours and almost all weddings tend to wind down at about five-and-a-half hours.  There is something to be said about knowing when the party should end. However, we do not have any time restrictions on when we must close, so if you, your friends and family are still celebrating, we are happy to stay open longer.  We just need to continue to see bar sales to justify the extra cost. To stay open beyond the contract stipulated end time, we charge a flat fee of $1,500.00 an hour plus the cost of any drinks consumed. And this must be arranged in advance with your coordinator.

Many couples like to set up Wedding websites, to give their guests info about their upcoming nuptials. WeddingWire has a great system that is easy to use and will have easy links to Deity info and reviews. Weddingwire Wedding Websites can be found here, and Deity’s Profile is here.

What do we put for a start time on our invitations?

Put your start time on your invitations as your contract states, but expect your ceremony or reception to start about a half an hour after that. You cannot change or move up the start time with explicit signed approval from your event coordinator. Timing at Deity is crucial in order for our staff to give you the best service possible.

*Please notify your guests will not be allowed to enter the venue until the official start time, no exceptions.

How far in advance of the Wedding should we ask my guests to RSVP?

We need the final RSVP number at least three weeks in advance of the wedding.  It is typical for couples to ask for their guests to RSVP no later than 6 weeks before the wedding. Deity requires final headcount 3 weeks before the Wedding.

Does Deity recommend a hotel in the area for our out-of-town guests?

There are currently eight hotels walking distance from our venue from which to choose.  They are: Ace Hotel Brooklyn,  The Nu Hotel ,  The Brooklyn Sheraton,  Aloft Hotel, Brooklyn Downtown Hilton,  The Hotel Indigo Brooklyn,  The Holiday Inn Brooklyn Downtown,  and Even Hotel Downtown Brooklyn.

Ace Hotel Brooklyn

Only 1.5 blocks from Deity! In Boerum Hill, on the edge of Downtown Brooklyn, at the ever-evolving intersection of everything.

And just a short Uber ride away:

1 Hotel Brooklyn Bride Park

Located in the middle of Brooklyn Bridge Park with direct views of the Brooklyn Bridge and Manhattan. Take first-look photos in the park with the Manhattan skyline and the Brooklyn Bridge as your backdrop, and then a short 5 minute car ride to Deity to get married and celebrate!

Need some advice for what guests can do during their visit to Brooklyn?

We have you covered with a quick guide of some amazing things to do in the Deity area of Downtown Brooklyn & Waterfront: Deity Guest Fun Guide!

Where can my Bridal Party get ready with a glam squad?

Look no further! Deity Bridal Suite is the perfect option for your crew on your big day. Check out this vid for more info

Does Deity provide direction cards?

We do not have printed direction cards. However here is a handy link that can provide guests with Google map and mass transit information.

Does Deity have on-site parking or provide valet service?

Any event held in the evening after 6PM there is virtually unlimited parking on the street because all of the local boutiques close at that time and there are no other evening businesses on our block.

There are also several parking garages in the area.  Here is a map.

 Also, if valet parking is a concern for you, you can find more info about hiring a professional valet company we recommend here: Park Pro System.

Our guests rarely find the need to use them, however.    Deity is also very conveniently located to most subway lines.  It is a short walk from subway stops on the

A, C, F, G, 4, 5, 2 & 3 & R lines.

Transportation Services (buses, vans, limos) are available through Buster

How does Deity handle early access for us, the couple or for our Bridal party and immediate family?

Your contract and your Coordinator will let you know how early you can arrive at the venue. You,  your Bridal Party and immediate family only will be allowed access to Deity before the start time of your Wedding for no additional charge.  This is an opportunity for you to relax and get ready.

If you want to take advantage of this, please let your Coordinator know during your planning meeting and provide them a list of names of all those coming early.

How does Deity handle any guests that arrive early?

We are here to provide you with excellent service on the day of your Wedding. That said, we need all of the allotted set up time for our staff to be totally prepared for you and your guests. Because of this, we must insist that no guests are allowed access to Deity until your stated contract start time. No Exceptions.

There are many coffee shops and restaurants in the area that we be pleased to have your guests. But just next door is

Someday Bar– Kitchen. Craft Beer. Cocktails. Female Owned Local Business (only 1 door down, great for groups and afterparties too)

We are planning on providing favors for our guests, how does Deity handle this?

Let us take care of this for you.  Just bring the favors to the venue the day of the event and our doorman will hand out the favors as your guest depart, thanking them for attending.

Candles, chocolates, and other treats make fabulous favors. However, we do not allow liquor or liqueur favors. It is against NY law for us to serve alcohol not purchased through Deity.

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How do we know what décor is included in my package?

Deity already has it’s own distinct decor that comes complimentary with each event. This includes a our basic 3 sized hurricane candle and 12 inch round mirror arrangement for ceremony aisles, cocktail tables, dinner tables and hi-top tables.

The amount of candle arrangements available for your use will depend on the number of guests you are expecting. The use of our hurricane vases are for our candles only. Using them for outside candles, flowers, or other decor is prohibited. You or your florist will have to provide this.

Does Deity allow outside florists?

We allow outside florists for your Wedding.  Please speak to your day-of coordinator during your planning meeting about the items your florist is providing to ensure that they will not require any additional assembly or assistance.

If your florist needs early access to the venue for the purposes of set-up, not just a drop-off there will be a $500 hr staffing fee for a Deity staff member to be there. Again, this is required for your safety as well as for the security of the venue. Access is based on availability.

Does Deity work with a preferred florist?

We have 3 wonderful preferred florists for custom floral arrangements and bouquets

Floral Heights, located on Atlantic Ave, has a beautiful classic aesthetic.

And Rosehip Social is super fun to work with. They are located in Williamsburg. Above is a garland accent they added to the complimentary in-house candle decor.

Does Deity provide their own linens?

We provide satin pintuck ivory tablecloths and white linen napkins as part of your wedding package. These are available for use on our dining tables, cocktail tables, hi-top tables, and cake/dessert tables. Custom colors and patterns are available through our coordination team for additional rental and steaming fees.

For more info about tables provided, table sizes, and table set up visit the Floor plans & Setting section.

How does Deity handle outside linens or runners?

You are more than welcome to bring in tablecloths or runners, know that these items generally come with fold marks. We want your Wedding to look as beautiful as possible, so a steaming fee of $300 may incur. Please discuss what you plan on doing with your day-of coordinator during your planning meeting to make sure you get the right amount and sizes.

For more info about tables provided, table sizes, and table set up visit the Floor plans & Setting section.

Need some inspiration on how to decorate your Deity Wedding? We have lots of photos of real Deity Wedding here. And photos of real Deity decor here.

Follow Deity on Pintrest for hundreds of other  ideas.

Does Deity allow outside catering?

We do not allow outside catering.   However, we are here to help design and choose your menu to your tastes or for your cultural specifications.

How many choices do we get with my Catering Plan?

Your amount of choices will depend on the catering plan that you choose. During your planning meeting with your Day-of Coordinator, you will be able to sit down and has out exactly what this will entail.  In the meantime here is a menu with the options of what your meal plan will include:

Deity Standing Dinner Menu

Deity Family Style Dinner Menu

Does Deity offer vegetarian, vegan, or gluten-free options?

Of course we do. Individual VEGETARIAN meals are an option, but we do have some constraints. We will have to know the amount of meals (there is a limit) and their exact table assignment. Once this is assessed, your Day-of Coordinator can advise you on how to best move forward. We offer inherently gluten-free items on our menu, so it’s best to offer those options for your  celiac guests.

Does Deity charge for children? 

If a child needs a seat, they are charged the same as any other guest.  If they are an infant in a mothers lap, we do not charge for them.  Chicken fingers and fries can be provided, if arranged in advance. Your Day-of Coordinator will require the ages and table assignments of each child for your final floor plan.

How long will our cocktail hour, dinner service, or passed food reception last?

Our Cocktail Hour before Family-Style Dinner service is generally 1 hr 15 mins.  Followed by 1 hr of dinner. Speeches commence at the end of this hour.

Our Standing Dinner will have 2 full hrs of passed & stationary food.

For more info on how your guests might be seated for the meal visit our Floor plans & Setting section.

Does Deity do Wedding Cakes?

We do not do traditional Wedding cakes, however we do take the delivery for you as well as provide cake cutting and plating service free of charge. Take a look at our cake and dessert page to find a bakery that ignites your taste buds!

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Does Deity provide our Wedding Cake?

Deity does not make traditional Wedding cakes, however cake cutting comes complimentary as part of your wedding package at Deity. We also have many bakery recommendations for you. We do offer our own selection of desserts, that are not cake. Deity Dessert

Does Deity allow outside cakes/cupcakes?

Deity NYC Wedding Venue. Vintage Wedding Style. Romantic Weddings in Brooklyn.

Does Deity charge for cake cutting?

Cake cutting comes complimentary as part of your wedding package. We will gladly cut and serve your wedding cake on real china to your guests, along with coffee and tea, for no additional charge.

Will Deity set up our viennese table or candy bar?

We are more than happy to place out outside desserts on already constructed cupcake towers or on tables. However, if you have a more extravagant viennese table or candy bar, a small fee will incur for our staff to set it up. You can also hire outside companies that specialize in this. Please ensure that you discuss your dessert plans with your Day-of Coordinator so that they understand how much is involved.

Does Deity have a preferred bakery for Wedding cakes and cupcakes?

Our preferred vendors are:

One Girl Cookies

From our elegant Joyful Cakes to whimsical cookie cakes to custom dessert tables and party favors, our creations are as beautiful as they are delicious.

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By Pensa 

We specialize in custom and contemporary, made to order cakes for modern celebrations. Taking inspiration from nature, architecture, textiles, and fashion, each design is personal, unique, and memorable.

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Betty Bakery

We pride ourselves on making beautiful cakes both inside and out.

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Does Deity provide tables & chairs?

Deity provides all tables and chairs, depending on your type of dinner service and your final guest count.

All events include:

Mahogany chivari chairs for dinner, silver velvet covered bar stools, 30” round cocktail height tables for Cocktail Hour/Receptions, 30” round hi-top tables for the dancing portion of the Wedding, various sized long tables for cake tables and dessert bars

For all seated, family-style dinners in the Loft spaces for guest counts of 65-132:

60” round dining tables that seat up to 11 guests

A small 2’ x 4’ long sweetheart table

A head table of up to 10 facing out (three 6’ x 30” long tables)

For all seated, family-style dinners in the Loft for guests counts of 135-150:

We will do a combination of the following:

60” round dining tables that seat up to 11 guests

6’ x 30” long tables for up to 8 guests on each

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For all seated, family-style dinners in the Lounge for guest counts of 65 or less:

Eight 6’ x 30” long tables for up to 8 guests

Does Deity provide real china & flatware?

Yes we do, free of charge. We offer white, square china plates & platters with regency style flatware.

Does Deity provide their own linens?

We provide either satin pintuck ivory tablecloths or flat black tablecloths with plain white linen napkins as part of your wedding package. These are available for use on our dining tables, cocktail tables, hi-top tables, and cake/dessert tables. Custom colors and patterns are available through our coordination team for additional rental and steaming fees.

For more information about what is included with your Deity in-house decor package, please visit the Decor & Flowers section

How does Deity handle outside linens or runners?

You are more than welcome to bring in tablecloths or runners, know that these items generally come with fold marks. We want your Wedding to look as beautiful as possible, so a steaming fee of $300 may incur. Please discuss what you plan on doing with your day-of coordinator during your planning meeting to make sure you get the right amount and sizes.

Do we need to have a seating plan for our dinner?

Not necessarily, some couples choose to keep their tables open to all their guests. However, if you would like to have assigned tables, our coordination team will provide you with a floor plan designed specifically for your Wedding. You will be provided this only when an exact final head count is given. This occurs usually about 2 weeks before your Wedding.

We do not allow assigned seating with place cards, it creates too much of a bottleneck at dinner time and interferes with our dinner service.

We do not provide you with your escort cards or charts. We can offer advice on these items, but this is something that you will have to provide for yourselves.

Can Deity provide us general floor plans for various seating arrangements on it’s multiple floors in advance?

We are happy to provide you with these in advance. However, please keep in mind that some of this is subject to change based on your specific guest count and meal plan. Your Day-of Coordinator will be giving you your final and approved floor plan. Here are a few different arrangements to use as a starting point only:

Does Deity allow outside vendors?

We allow pre-approved outside vendors only.  If you have an outside vendor in mind that you would like to use, please contact your Day-of Coordinator for approval. However, we have a wonderful group of preferred vendors (Deity Vendor List) to recommend to you that we have worked with many times (see below).

*We do not allow any outside DJs or security- please visit our MUSIC & SOUND for more info on your Deity DJ *

Are we required to provide a vendor meal for our photographer or other outside vendors? 

Deity will provide vendor meals for an additional $75 per meal.

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Deity Preferred Vendors

Officiates

Rev. Samora Smith

We understand and specialize in crafting all styles of wedding ceremonies and no matter the scenario, at Common Ground Ceremonies we will walk you through the often confusing process.

Rev. Annie Lawrence

Your ceremony is the heart of your Wedding Day.  My goal is to support you in sharing your love story, so that when you say “I do” you feel relaxed, prepared, and truly present to give your heart, to experience every moment, and celebrate!

Rabbi Darren Levine

Cares deeply about building community, moral education, and creative Jewish expression

Florists

Floral Heights

Our talented design team creates unique floral designs to fit the vision and style of every client.

Opalia Flowers

We pride ourselves on creating fresh and unique designs that express your personal vision while taking into account the season, the venue, and your budget.

Rosehip Social

We love to bring the wild beauty of the garden into expertly designed arrangements built to enhance your occasion or space.

-Visit our DECOR & FLOWERS section for more info florists-

Bakeries:

By Pensa

We specialize in custom and contemporary, made to order cakes for modern celebrations. Taking inspiration from nature, architecture, textiles, and fashion, each design is personal, unique, and memorable.

 One Girl Cookies

Nothing says “This day is so very special” like One Girl’s Joyful Cakes.

Betty Bakery

Learn more about CAKE & DESSERTS Vendors Here

Hair & Make-up

Hair by Carmine

Carmine works in one of the most celebrated hair styling studios in New York and has distinguished himself in Bridal Hairstyles and Trends 

Irene O’Brien Make-up Artist

Irene has mastered the technique of creating flawless beauty for her clients on and off the runway

Naho Sawada: Divr Salon

Offers high-end services in a comfortable neighborhood atmosphere

Simple & Sultry

Brooklyn based beauty service specializing in soft makeup, romantic hairstyles, & 100% natural-appearing sunless tans

Neighborhood Cut and Shave (Livingston)

Local cuts, shaves, and clean-ups for the guys. In the Deity Suite or in the store.

Musicians

Sterling Strings

Offers Classical music as well as Pop, that spans from The Beatles to Beyoncé

Phearnone: Violin

Classic Violin, Jazz, Afro-beat, Salsa, Hip Hop and R & B

Divina Strings

Soloists, Ensembles, and Vintage Jazz Bands. Imagine the wow factor when your guests are serenaded by a strolling violinist around the dining room or a vintage jazz band at cocktail hour.

 Brandi Younger: Harpist

Whether you prefer classical, contemporary or religious music, during a sacred or civil ceremony, harpist Brandee Younger works diligently to help bring your dream to life, unique to your personal style.

Scott Tran: Violinist

Romance comes naturally to Scott, that can be felt through his music.  His experience is amplified be the fact that he and his wife were married at Deity as well!

Photographers

Cheyanna De Nicola

IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY WITH A BIT OF EDGE AND A WHOLE LOT OF ROMANCE THEN I CAN’T WAIT TO KNOW YOU.

David Perlman Photography

Joyful and authentic wedding photography, captured with passion and kindness on your special day

Robert Carlo

 Modern. Elegant. Classic. Real.

Emma Cleary Photo and Video

Le Image Studio

Congratulations! You have finally found the one you want to spend the rest of your life with! Now the wedding planning begins! our team has the expertise and experience necessary to capture every special moment of your big day.

Love Like Ours

So you’re marrying your best friend?! AWESOME. (We did the same thing + it turns out… it’s pretty damn great.)

https://vimeo.com/342746065

Videographers

Mint Wedding Cinematography

Our shooting style is journalistic, inconspicuous and centered on documenting each important moment as it happens.

Reel Feels Weddings

You deserve to really LIVE your Wedding day uninterrupted. And then live it all again and again with a video that takes you back to real moments otherwise gone.

Le Image Studio

(offering 10% off for Deity Clients)

Congratulations! You have finally found the one you want to spend the rest of your life with! Now the wedding planning begins! our team has the expertise and experience necessary to capture every special moment of your big day.

Bill Capone

Shooting, editing and producing a beautiful wedding video is art. From the moment the camera begins to roll there are amazing things happening right before our eyes.

ShariFilms

I love telling stories and trying to see things from a new perspective.

Photo Booth: 

Photo booths are of course a fun addition to any party. However, we require that any photo booth that you choose to use must be a collapsible, open booth. No hardcover booths are allowed.

Le Image Studios

If you’re looking for a great way to entertain (and impress) guests at your wedding reception, our modern, interactive, easy-to-use Photo Booth is the perfect choice! 

The Photo Barr

ILight PhotoBooth

OUT WITH THE OLD BLACK BOX PHOTOBOOTH. THIS IS THE BEST DARN PHOTOBOOTH…EVER!

AmazeBooths

All of our packages include personalized graphics, custom interface screens, assortment of backdrops, assortment of props, digital copies, free delivery, set up & breakdown.

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What does Deity recommend for taking formal bridal party photos?

We highly recommend taking bridal party photos in advance at one of the many picturesque Brooklyn locations. Check out our Deity Real Weddings blog to give you some inspiration and ideas with what other couples have done in the past.

If you plan to go the traditional route, and not see each other before the ceremony, you have 2 options. Option 1 is to step away during your cocktail hour to one of the above outdoor locations. The Deity façade can also offer a beautiful background for these shots.

Option 2 is to take a short 15 min window of opportunity to take portraits in the Loft after your ceremony if weather or circumstances do not allow for outdoor photos. If you choose this option and you are having your seated dinner in Loft, please respect that our staff will need the entire time to switchover the room efficiently. 15 min is the maximum time that we can allow, and you will be asked to leave after that amount of time.

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If you need some inspiration and you want to follow shared photos on Instagram, You Can do it Here. If you want to share some Photos yourself, please add Deity’s hashtag #deitybrooklyn

Does Deity offer space indoors before our ceremony as an alternative if it rains?

If rain and bad weather is a concern for your Wedding photos, please contact your day-of coordinator at least 24 hours in advance. At this time they will assess whether or not Deity is available, if any fee will incur for the early arrival of staff, and the time you will be able to have access.

We understand that no one can control the weather, however we take the service of your Wedding very seriously. That being said, having an impromptu photo shoot in our space while we are trying to set up for your big day can be disruptive. We will just need to make sure that all of our bases are covered to offer you the best service possible.

Are we required to provide a vendor meal for our photographer?

You are not required to do this. Many photographers and other outside vendors put in their contracts that you have to pay for their meal at your event.  Our staff certainly will not be eating during your event.  They will be focused on providing excellent service to you and your guests.  So should your vendors.  If one of your vendors says that they require you to pay for a meal for your event, simply tell them that the venue does not allow this.  This will cut short their attempt to get you to pay for a meal for them.

Does Deity have preferred photographers?

Deity’s Planning Team has some really wonderful photographers to recommend. Your photographs are one of the most important parts of your Wedding. And we take that fact very seriously. That being said, we have worked with all of these photographers on numerous occasions and they are extremely professional (this is a big concern when choosing a photographer). The results from all of these photogs have all been very beautiful, and a lot are featured in our Real Deity Weddings Blog.

Our preferred Photographers are:

MEGAN&Kenneth Photography

We know how much your photos will matter in the future.

-pretty much obsessed with their work on this Wedding-

-check out their work from this Wedding season of 2021-

-here is a blog post of a gorgeous couple in Pride month of 2021-

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David Perlman Photography

Joyful and authentic wedding photography, captured with passion and kindness on your special day

–Some of David’s Joyful Work-

-We are so in love with his epic shots seen here-

-As well as here!-

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Love Like Ours

So you’re marrying your best friend?! AWESOME. (We did the same thing + it turns out… it’s pretty damn great.)

–here is a Wedding from this adorable married team–

-this gorgeous one-

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Le Image Studios

–see one of their 2021 Weddings at Deity here–

–here is another stunning one-

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Videographers:

Le Image Studios 

MEGHAN AND KENNETH

Do we have to offer premium liquors to our guests?

No, you don’t. You can serve whatever type of alcohol you want.  You have full control over this. You have the choice of premium, well, or beer & wine only. Here is a current Bar List of the liquors and beers that we carry, as well as our Deity Wine List  hand picked by Deity’s owners.

Does Deity allow any outside alcohol or wine?

We can not allow any outside alcohol of any kind. It is NY law that we must provide the alcohol that is served in our venue. This includes any favors you plan on handing out to your guests.

What if we decide we would like to offer signature cocktails?

Deity offers a selection of in-house specialty cocktails for both well and premium bars. See our list created by our head bartender James Sexton here:

Our Housemade Specialty Cocktails are $14. We require that you choose from these lists if you want to offer exclusive signature drinks. Download a copy of the Deity Specialty Cocktails here.

If you plan on naming your signature drink with something different, please provide your own printed signage with the information that you would like. Deity will provide 8 ½” x 11” (portrait orientation) clear frame sign holders for the signs to be placed in. Make sure you inform your Day-of Coordinator during your planning meeting of your intent to do this.

What are the prices of Deity’s drinks?

Here is our Deity Wine List with Prices. Please let your Coordinator know if you want to offer specific wines only from this list. Also, choose what you would want to offer if you are doing wine on the dinner tables.

Wedding photos at Deity wedding venue by Le Image – Brooklyn wedding photographer and videographer.

After our open bar open tab ends, can we switch to cash bar?

Absolutely!

Can we offer bottles of wine at each table for our dinner?

Yes. You have the choice of offering red and/or white, Prosecco, or sparkling cider at each table. You will be charged the price of each bottle (see Deity Wine List ) and it will be put towards your tab.

How does Deity handle a champagne toast, should we have one? 

Our advice would be to let your guests toast with whatever beverage they have in their hands.  Many people don’t drink champagne, so pouring glasses of champagne is an unnecessary extra cost.

If you do want to do a traditional toast, we can help you save some money. First we serve Prosecco, not champagne.  Then we will charge you by the bottle, rather than the glass, which costs $50 a bottle. Lastly, we pour 1/3 of a glass each for your guests –   There is no need to pay for a full glass of champagne for everyone when most of your guests will only take a sip.

Tips on Planning a Brooklyn Wedding

How you saved money on Catering by Choosing Deity Events 

We have the D.L. on Wedding Catering in NYC and Brooklyn. Spoiler alert! As we found out hiring a catering company is not cheap and it is not factored into a venue’s wedding costs. Read about the full investigation and all the perks of Deity catering on our blog, the Brooklyn Aisle.

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Does Deity have a sound system and microphone?

Yes, we are professionally wired for sound with microphones on all of our floors.

What are our options for processional music for the ceremony? 

Your Deity DJ will be at the venue for the duration of your event. If you are using recorded music for a processional and/or recessional please provide this music to your Deity DJ. They will be responsible for setting it up and playing it.

Does Deity have preferred professional string musicians for our ceremony, cocktail hour, or dinner music?

We have a wonderful couple, who also got married at Deity, who are professional violinists. It is a really nice touch, and can be reached at scotttranmusic@gmail.com.

We also have a lovely Harpist that we recommend: www.brandiyounger.com

Will there be music provided for cocktail hour and dinner?

We have an uptempo and modern playlist that we use for many of our events available for all floors. As well as Pandora radio subscriptions. If you would like to create your own playlist, please provide it to us on an Ipod or Ipad only.

Does Deity allow a band instead of a DJ?

Yes, however, your Wedding package accounts for use of a DJ. In the instance you want to use a band, your DJ fee will go towards the cost of a sound technician to set-up the band and for the use of our sound equipment. Please ensure that we are put in touch with the band in advance.

Will the Deity DJ play our preferred music?

Our DJ will be your DJ.  They will play anything (or not play) you want. Our Deity DJs are full time professional DJs.

When do we get to speak to our DJ and provide him with our music list?

You will be put in touch with the DJ 2 weeks before the event.  At that time we suggest that you give the DJ 20-30 songs you absolutely want to hear and maybe the 4 or 5 that you don’t.

You also need to provide the DJ no later than 7 days before your Wedding the artist and name of any songs you want played for any first dances.  Also, give some thought to how you would like the DJ to announce you as a couple.

Does Deity have a projector?

Yes, we have 2 state of the art video projectors on our Lounge level. You will be put in touch with the technician about formatting and for testing.  You or a friend will need to provide the laptop or iPad to play the video from. Apple equipment will require a special converter that you will have to supply as well. Arrangements need to made at least 10 days in advance for use of the equipment.

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